Red Doors – DivX Version (Normal Quality), iPod/iPhone Version
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IMDB rating: 6.70 Plot: Red Doors tells the story of the Wongs, a bizarrely dysfunctional Chinese-American family living in the New York suburbs. Ed Wong has just retired and plots to escape his mundane life. However, the tumultuous, madcap lives of his three rebellious daughters change his plans. The eldest daughter, Samantha, is an ambitious businesswoman in Manhattan who suddenly gets cold feet about her upcoming marriage when she runs into an old high school flame. Julie, the shy middle sister, finds her life as a studious medical student turned upside down when she falls for a movie starlet visiting the hospital. Katie, the youngest sister, is a disaffected high school senior who engages in a continually escalating and dangerous prank war with her longtime neighbor and nemesis, Simon. Ultimately, Ed’s disappearance compels each daughter to examine her own understanding of the role and connection she has to the family. At the same time, the Wongs learn to live their own lives outside the invisible fences of their home. |
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Actors: Ma Tzi,Bartok Jayce,Sutherland Rossif,Stan Sebastian,Rowe Stephen,Zhao Mao,Mundi Coati,Maynard Tyler,Drama,
Is she oversensitive? How can I help this situation?
So, sophomore year I met this girl from my hometown, I thought she was gorgeous. So one day we ran into each other and we had some small talk and talk about high school, I told her she used to dress like a goth and she got very sensitive to that. I mean really sensitive like she blushed, ran into her friends room and slammed the door. So later I apologized to her via facebook and we ended up going out. She acted like she liked me and her friends would always smile at me.
After we went out (it seemed like a decent date) like a week or two later a female friend of mine told me I should get her flowers, I thought it would be weird but she said since its Valentines day I’d have an excuse. So I got her one flower and she thought it was very sweet, gave me a hug. Later like in a week or so I asked her out to the movies and she replied back later that night that (I was intimidated by her being that she didn’t seem so easygoing so I texted her) it sounded too much like a date and that she would like to be my friend. So ok, I said its fine.
I talked to her a few days later cause I wanted to know why she didn’t want to go out with me and she seemed like she couldn’t come up with a reason, she said she had really high standards and had been single for a long time. But later that night she asked me to come to her friend’s room and hang out with her late at night. I didn’t, I thought it was a little weird to do that, plus I was a bit confused as to what she wanted.
So a friend of mine told me she did the same thing to her and soon enough another friend of mine told me she did the same to him. This semester, I’m at the bookstore buying a book and she sees me and runs up to me from behind giving me a hug. I asked her how her summer was but before she answered she said "K, I gotta go".
So I texted her later that night asking her if she’d like to go out for coffee sometime, she said yes. We went out to coffee and hit things off amazingly, as if there was no awkward history between us. Later that night I went to a party and she was there, I wanted to meet new people and she kept coming up to me grabbing me or hugging me. So we teased each other for a bit and then later I’m talking to one of my friends and she pours ice down my back. So I come back later and pour water down her’s, she smacks me playfully. Later that night she kept coming up when me and my friends were looking for rides and kept trying to talk to me. So I called her up when I got back and told her teasingly that I her behavior was unacceptable and that she’d have to redeem herself by having coffee again this week, which she said yes.
Later when I hit her up for coffee, she ignored my call. So, I waited a bit, texted her asking if she wanted coffee.She ignored that too. So I told her I’m not gonna be a douche and ask again. She told me na, I’m gonna have to reconsider the coffee. I said why? You seemed a bit flirty recently and it surprises me how you’d take your word back within a few days. She said she wasn’t flirty at all and didn’t want me to get that idea. I said , ok whatever, this is the second time you did this. So I deleted her number and deleted her from facebook, cutting her off completely.
A week ago during pledge season I was going to the bookstore to get a red bull and I saw her walk by and she stared at me like she was pissed.
I’m asking this question because I liked her, and I think I still do, and also because I find her behavior to be very weird. I hope I didn’t come across as weird because I’m not that experienced with girls. Apparently, she isn’t too experienced either according to herself. What is going on, and how can I make things normal again?
chicks huh? even they don’t know why they behave the way they do
Harley Drive | Nov 19, 2009
She is afraid. If you understand that you will understand her!
Understand she does not want to be trapped. The problem with a gal like this is they will never trust and I can assure you people who do not trust are seldom trustworthy.
Uncle Dudd | Nov 19, 2009
i believe she is scared but i want to talk more about this with you on a friendlly note so can you email me iamasucka4love@yahoo.com when ever you can because i need advice to.
Deshaun | Nov 19, 2009
Her behavior sounds typical of a girl who enjoys attention (the flirting) and only wants you when you are not interested. As soon as you become the one pursuing her, it is no long "fun" for her, and she loses interest.
These types of girls are very easy to fall for, since they seem fun, most often laid back, they are obviously entertaining because the will read your reactions, and behave in ways that get them positive feed back from you. In a horrible way, they are kind of like smart dogs. They behave in different ways, and when they get a good reaction from you (more attention), they continue to do those behaviors just so long as you keep producing positive feedback.
However, for her, you pursuing her and following up on your invites, is too easy. Although she would never admit it, and might not be aware of it, she would prefer that you ignore her most of the time, but when you two run into each other at a party or something, if she is flirty with you, she would want you to return that.
She is never going to be happy either way, and it is completely her issue, not yours. I know it’s not good news, but there really is no "normal" with this girl, unless you can keep it completely platonic all the time, which can be hard.
I’m guessing she probably has predominately male friends, but that most of her friendships are not very long-lasting. So, if you can handle switching gears and being solely a friend to this girl – never anything more – it probably would be best just to try and forget her.
I’m no expert or psychologist, but I am one of those girls. Good luck.
Beth L | Nov 19, 2009
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